Few of us have the run of an entire house or apartment. We have to carefully select just the Right Spot to masturbate.
Let's take a closer look at the best places in the house to masturbate, including why you might want toi change your masturbation spots, just to keep things interesting.
For most girls their Right Spot is the privacy of your own bedroom.
After all, what could be better than locking the door, taking off all your clothes, laying back on a soft matress, and having a bit of fun with your anatomy?
Nothing of course, but all this assumes you have your own bedroom, that you can keep it locked at least long enough to come.
If you share your bedroom with a spouse, sister, or room mate, you need to time your masturbation sessions to when he or she is not around - or at least not awake.
For husbands and boyfriends or anyone else you share your bed with, try masturbating after he's gone to sleep. (Put his snoring to good use!)
For a sister, room mate, or someone who share your bedroom or dorm with, hope for consistent patterns in when they're at home. Plan your masturbation times when they're out. This isn't always convenient or fun, so you may need to consider other alternative locations for your self-pleasure.
If you share your bedroom, and can't seem to get enough opportinities to jill off, consider establishing a "private time" during the day or evening. Simply state you need some quiet time and need to get away for a half hour. Tell them it's to read or study or just be alone. If you can, lock the door. That'll give you a greater sense of privacy, and you'll be willing to let go more.
Bathrooms are natural Masturbation Zones because people expect privacy will be honored. As places to jill off, though, they're not always as comfortable. And if your house or apartment only has one bathroom, the amount of time you have to get the job done might be severely limited. No one likes a mom or sister or room mate who always takes forever in the bathroom - doing who-knows-what-for-way-too-long.
Masturbating while sitting on the toilet is easily mastered, and something most every woman has done one time or another. Bring something to read or look at if you need help focusing on something sexy. If you like looking at dirty videos get a smart phone that can connect to the Internet. Many Web sites now provide "mobile porn" just for this purpose!
If you've mastered the ability to come standing up the shower that's a great alternative. A waterproof or "splash proof" vibrator is handy to get things rolling. Or, try a rubber dildo with a suction cup on the base. Stick the suction cup against the wall of the shower, and back yourself onto it.
You're lucky if you have the luxury of soaking in the bath tub. Use it to your best advantage. Try the waterjet technique of directing the faucet right at your clitoris. Or bring along a book and some toys. For obvious reasons, for the buzzing type use only those that are battery operated - and even those need to specifically say they are waterproof, not just water resistent. Rubber dildos are also perfect, as are your fingers.
For those that live alone, or are at home alone for long periods of the day, the living room makes for an ideal Right Spot - it has comfy couches and chairs that offer a difefrent experience than your bed. And if you like visual stimulation, you've got the benefit of your big screen TV, beaming bouncing boobies across the room.
Because most living rooms don't have a door that leads to them, you need to be quite certain you're alone in the house - at least, assuming you're not interested in being caught. And since most living rooms face the front of the house or apartment, be sure your blinds or curtains can be fully drawn. You don't want the UPS guy peering in while you're furiously strumming your goodies.
More and more women are enjoying erotica while masturbating. If you have cable or satellite, subscribe to a channel with adult programming. If the adult channel isn't available available all day, get a DVR to time shift the late-night programming so that it's accessible to you whenever you want it. Use a parental lock to keep the material away from eyes that shouldn't be exposed to it.
One young housewife I know loves the feel of being completely naked on a bearskin rug. It's not real bearskin, of course, but it has a smooth, satin feel that adds to the erotic moment. Consider stripping off everything, laying nude on the floor, maybe covered with a throw blanket. Or nothing at all.
These days many studies and dens come equipped with a computer, connected to the Internet. If you enjoy hard or soft porn while you masturbate, your computer is a gateway to just about any kind of visual or written erotica you can imagine.
Like a bedroom, a den or study is the Right Spot only if it has a door you can close, and ideally lock. Or, wait until everyone is gone for the day, or asleep.
The best setup is one where your back is not to the door. Put the computer on the opposite end of the room, so you can face the door. That helps in your sense of privacy - you won't worry about someone sneaking up on you from behind.
Many ladies use their PCs for school or taking care of family business matters. Being at the computer seems a natural, and is easily explained. That's why it's fast becoming a common spot for girl's late-night jilling-off.
And finally, keep in mind that there's always your car, the lavatory at work or school, your cubicle at work, out in the middle of some field somewhere, the basement, your garage, someone else's garage, the hot tub, your attic, the pool, the library at school, the kitchen - literally hundreds of other spots that women the world over have used - at one time or another - to gfive themselves a bitof self-relief.
It's your body ... find a place where you can be alone for a few minutes, and enjoy yourself!
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